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Shaking Hands with Non-Mehram.

I was walking in a day and then found a girl was walking too with her friends has 15 year old and i know her because we are in the same school she said hello to me I said hello too she raised her hand straightly towards me for shaking hands I said.. I don't shake hands, she laughed and her friends and shaked someones 'male' hand we are almost our ages 15 or 16 I said to the guy who shaked his hand with her its haram anyway he laughed and said to the girl look 'he is saying it's haram hahahaha' I moved away and went to my house, Tell me when can we shake hands with girls and when not to shake and why and ages to stop shaking and


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Dear brother, it is absolutely prohibited for a believer to shake hands with the Non-Mehram. Those who laughed on you were indeed laughing on themselves, it shows there ignorance, there lack of knowledge of the perfect Deen of islam.

It is your responsibility to guide them to the truth, and drag them out of ignorance Invite them to the way of your Lord with wisdom and excellent admonition and argue with them in the best manner. And Allah alone knows the best.

I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.

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