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Relationship with a non-muslim girl and feel some drops falling out from my private part?

Assalaam-walekhum I am in a relationship with a non-muslim girl and we talk daily but whenever I talk to her I feel some drops falling out from my private part,even when we are talking normally. I just want to ask that does it makes me (napaak)unfit for salah? And one more question plzz Am I allowed to talk to her while fasting in this situation??


بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

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Dear brother, it is Haram for a believing man to make relations with the non-mehram woman, leave alone the non-believers you can not make such relations with the believers.

Firstly, you should abandon such relations, as these relations will only invite the wreath of Allah. Secondly, you should seek sincere repentance from Allah for your transgression.

As for the second part of your question, it seems only ‘Madhi’ has released, thus you don’t need to perform the ‘Gusul’ or full bath. You should wash your private organ and the clothes where ‘Madhi’ might have touched and perform the Wudu or ablution.

And one more question plzz Am I allowed to talk to her while fasting in this situation?

Dear brother, you are not allowed to talk to her whether you are fasting or not. And it does not suite the character of a believer to act like that. And Allah alone knows the best.

I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.

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