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I have shared naked pictures with a guy online whom I like...

I want to ask about how should i repent for such silly sins I've done. I'm an honest n loyal person not much into guys. I never make male friends.. I am lyk one man woman typo.. bt 3 years back i met a guy online as i was learning a language.. I control myself there as well never talk to any guy. But this boy was different very deeni and he made me realise to offer all 5 prayers.. He even proposed me he wants to have a wife lyk me. Since we belong to different countries it is impossible to marry. I considered him as Bhai bt things changed we became good friends I also started liking him.. And then one fine day topic abt hot n short clothes came between us.. So He shared his shirtless pic to me which were edited not so clear.. And i told him you share first i will share mine too so I shared bt it was not that hot.. like a cute one he said itz not hot at all i shared 3 or 4 times my pic to him bt he finds it cute as i dnt wear short cloths bt i tried for him. I'm very shy person so i shared decent pics only not so revealing.. but then somehow I shared him a bit hot pic of mine.. Just bra pic of my body only not full only the upper part. I regret doing such a sinful act..I shared him via Insta one time watch kinda n I also told him to delete.. He is nice person he said he deleted everything.. I even told him to delete chat history he did that too i get it confirmed by screenshot he sent to me of empty chat. I don't know why i've done this.. But later i regret and stop all this not talking to him i even repent sincerely.. He is a great guy very religious and me too bt we did such a sin.. I'm ashamed of this should i tell about all this to my Mom.. Bt I read on internet that your sins should be between you and Allah dnt tell.. I feel disgusting I'm a Proud daughter of her and what I did. 😢 I am very loyal he even told me to his gf bt i denied.. But i ended up doing this!! My mom told me to not talk any guy. Even i shared her abt this guy how deeny he is she said talk but in limits. And she even told dnt talk it is better for you.. I dunno why I talked to him even my mom told me to not. Plz suggest me what should i do!!

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

We begin with Allah’s blessed name, we praise him and we glorify him, seek his forgiveness and ask him to guide us. Whoever Allah guides, None can lead astray and whoever he misguides, None can guide. There is no power and no strength except from Allah, The most high, the Most great, the most powerful. We bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers. We pray for peace and blessings on all the noble messengers and in particular on the last of them all “the blessed prophet Mohammad (pbuh)”

Dear sister, the first and the foremost you should do is to seek sincere repentance from the lord for such a crime. This is the reason Islam has forbidden two non-mehrams from talking or chatting when two non-mehram stat chatting the shaitan starts tempting them to transgress the limits set by Allah.

When you are overwhelmed by the temptations of shaitan you start doing things which are absolutely prohibited in Islam and such thing would do no good to you but would invite the wrath of Allah.

But this boy was different very deeni and he made me realise to offer all 5 prayers.

If he would had been religious he would had never motivated you to share naked pictures.

I don't know why i've done this.

You had done this because you are weak in knowledge of the deen called Islam, or you have no fear of Allah the lord of the worlds, or you have no fear of the accounting on the day of judgement.

I'm very shy person so i shared decent pics only not so revealing.. but then somehow I shared him a bit hot pic of mine.. Just bra pic of my body only not full only the upper part.

If you were shy you would had never shared your naked pictures.

But later i regret and stop all this not talking to him i even repent sincerely..

Allah says in the glorious Quran: (O Prophet) say: “O My servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair of Allah’s Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to Him before the scourge overtakes you; for then you may get no help from anywhere.” Quran [39:53-54] >

He is a great guy very religious and me too bt we did such a sin.. I'm ashamed of this should i tell about all this to my Mom.. Bt I read on internet that your sins should be between you and Allah dnt tell.. I feel disgusting I'm a Proud daughter of her and what I did. But i ended up doing this!! My mom told me to not talk any guy. Even i shared her abt this guy how deeny he is she said talk but in limits. And she even told dnt talk it is better for you.. I dunno why I talked to him even my mom told me to not. Plz suggest me what should i do!!

If you like him, you should tell your parents to send him a proposal for marriage else you should terminate every contact you have with him, that would be better for you. And Allah alone knows the best.

I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.

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