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I had sex with my Girlfriend, what is the punishment for me?

I had sex with my girlfriend,but i did not know she was doing menstruation and she did not tell me that she was doing it.Please what punishment is for me or what should i do to make Allah forgive me,and what is the sacrifice i should make. Please Help Me

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

We begin with Allah’s blessed name, we praise him and we glorify him, seek his forgiveness and ask him to guide us. Whoever Allah guides, None can lead astray and whoever he misguides, None can guide. There is no power and no strength except from Allah, The most high, the Most great, the most powerful. We bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers. We pray for peace and blessings on all the noble messengers and in particular on the last of them all “the blessed prophet Mohammad (pbuh)”

Dear brother. If she is not married to you then you have indulged in the mountainous sin of ZINAH, i.e. illegal, illegitimate sexual intercourse, this is the grave sin in the sight of Allah, the first and foremost you should do is to turn back to Allah in sincere repentance, and seek forgiveness for the transgression from the merciful Lord. If you are sincere in your repentance then know, Allah has promised that he would forgive any sin of his slave if he turns to him in sincere repentance.

If you are married and If you had sexual intercourse during menstruation period, then indeed you have transgressed one of the prescribed limits of Allah, you both should immediately turn back to Allah in sincere repentance for this heinous sin. If you are sincere in your repentance then know, Allah has promised that he would forgive any sin of his slave if he turns to him in sincere repentance. You should also give one or half of dinar to the poor and needy. And Allah alone knows the best.

I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.

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