بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
We begin with Allah’s blessed name, we praise him and we glorify him, seek his forgiveness and ask him to guide us. Whoever Allah guides, None can lead astray and whoever he misguides, None can guide. There is no power and no strength except from Allah, The most high, the Most great, the most powerful. We bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers. We pray for peace and blessings on all the noble messengers and in particular on the last of them all “the blessed prophet Mohammad (pbuh)”
Allah says in the Quran:...If ye are in a state of 'ceremonial impurity' or 'sexual impurity' bathe your whole body. QURAN[5:6]
The acts which make Gusul obligatory and constitute 'ceremonial impurity' or 'sexual impurity' are:
If the husband and wife have sex then the 'gusul' becomes obligatory only on the husband and wife and not on the kids sleeping next to their parents. If the wife feels that some impurity had touched the bed sheets then she should wash them.
Dear brother, believing that if one is in the sexual impurity and sits on the sofa then sofa becomes impure is nothing but absolute ignorance. Or if one believes that sitting on the bed sheet used during the sexual intercourse makes one impure is also nothing but the ignorance. If the husband and wife uses the bathroom to enjoy the conjugal relation, then there is no harm and there is no need to wash the bathroom.
Narrarted Abu HurairaAllah's Apostle (Pbuh) said, " If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relations) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning." Sahih Al-Bukhari [Vol. 4 Hadith No. 460 & Sahih Muslim Vol. 2 Hadith No. 3368]
Narrated Abu HurairaThe Messenger of Allah (swt) said: By him in whose hand is my life, when a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond, the One Who is in the heaven is displeased with her untill he (her husband) is pleased with her. Sahih Muslim [Vol. 2 Hadith No. 3367]
In Islam it is ‘wajib’ for a wife to fulfill the desire of her husband, thus she should pay heed to the call of her husband and should protect him from straying. Depriving ones husband from sex is something that displeases the lord, and the believing women would never want that her lord should get displeased with her. And Allah alone knows the best.
I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.Ask Your Question