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After seeing pornography, I feel wet, is it Maniy or Madhiy?

Assalamualaikum..!! I am a girl 21 Years old.. Unmarried.. I don't watch porn.. But from the past six months weekly once r twice I use to watch, that too just a limited video like Kissing or undressing.. Nothing more than.. And it makes me little wet.. Then I feel relaxed.. I am just confused that.. The liquid which I get is Madhi or what?? Should I need to take ghusl before performing Fajr or wadu is enough.. And infact I am trying to control myself from watching these things.. Unable to control.. Please lemme know what should I do..? Jazakallah hu khair..

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

We begin with Allah’s blessed name, we praise him and we glorify him, seek his forgiveness and ask him to guide us. Whoever Allah guides, None can lead astray and whoever he misguides, None can guide. There is no power and no strength except from Allah, The most high, the Most great, the most powerful. We bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers. We pray for peace and blessings on all the noble messengers and in particular on the last of them all “the blessed prophet Mohammad (pbuh)”

Allah Says in the Quran: Say: The things that my Lord hath indeed forbidden are: 'fahisha' (shameful or indecent deeds) whether open or secret; sins and trespasses against truth or reason; assigning of partners to Allah for which he hath given no authority; and saying things about Allah of which ye have no knowledge. QURAN[7:33]

Say, "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited to you. [He commands] that you not associate anything with Him, and to parents, good treatment, and do not kill your children out of poverty; We will provide for you and them. And do not approach immoralities - what is apparent of them and what is concealed. And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed] except by [legal] right. This has He instructed you that you may use reason." Quran[6:151]

The Arabic word ‘fahisha’ means every type of sexual indecency, lewdness, obscenity etc. whether in the form of text, or picture, or movie etc. each and every form of ‘fahisha’ is absolutely forbidden in Islam.

Narrated by Anas ibn Malik ...That he heard the Messenger of Allah (saws) say: 'The eye commits 'zina', and the palm of the hand, the foot, the body, the tongue and private part of the body confirm it or deny it.' ABU DAWOOD[Book 41 : Hadith 4886]

Dear sister, there are mainly three type of moistures coming out of women; 1)maniy 2)madhiy 3)simple moisture

  1. 'Maniy' is a thin yellow discharge, smells like pollen and when this is released the women feels pleasure and after it is released the desire is ceased immediately. In this case the gusul becomes obligatory.
  2. 'Madhiy' is white and thin, and it is released when one feels desire, its release does not give pleasure nor does the desire comes to an immediate end after its release. In this case wash the private organ and perform ablution.
  3. This is the regular discharge.

Thus one has to determine what has come out of the private organ according to what has been mentioned above. If any of the characteristic resembles to any of the characteristic mentioned in the above categories, then it would be considered that very fluid.

And it makes me little wet.. Then I feel relaxed..

Dear sister from your question I have come to know that you got relaxed after the release, which to the best of my knowledge means that your desire comes to an end, and when the desire comes to an end it means the 'Maniy' has released.

Should I need to take ghusl before performing Fajr or wadu is enough..

Dear sister, since the 'Maniy' has released you need to take gusul in order to perform the salah.

And infact I am trying to control myself from watching these things.. Unable to control.. Please lemme know what should I do..?

O ye who believe! Follow not Satan's footsteps QURAN[24:21]

The easy way to prevent one from watching porn is to prevent one’s eyes from viewing anything prohibited to view, and how one would prevent oneself from it, Allah replies to this question:

(... And establish regular prayer for verily, prayer restrains [the worshipper] from shameful and unjust deeds...) Quran[ 29: 45]

Verily, the Salah prevents from immoral sins and evil wicked deeds. Ibn `Awn Al-Ansari said: "When you are praying, you are doing good, it is keeping you away from immoral sins and evil wicked deeds and what you are doing is part of the remembrance of Allah which is greater.''

In addition to Salah remember and follow these points:

  1. Fear Allah.
  2. Remember Allah constantly.
  3. Whenever any evil desire or thought arises, seek refuge in Allah. Following after lusts or vain desires involves committing all manner of disobedience.
  4. Lower your graze whenever you look at a prohibited thing(which is prohibited to see).
  5. Stay in the company of pious people.
  6. Avoid being in solitude.
  7. Keep yourself busy, either in study or in some sports, or in social service etc.
  8. Keep doing good deeds and avoid bad deeds, and you will inshallah, gain upper hand over shaitan, and shaitan will have no effect over you.

Dear sister, if one is sincere in ones efforts then allah will surely help one to fight with these immoral habits. And Allah alone knows the best.

I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.

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