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What should I do after my first intercourse with my husband to reduce the pain?


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Dear sister, You need not to worry, The pain after the first intercourse is natural and this pain will decrease as the days pass and as you get used to with this process. All you have to do is to be patient.

It is the responsibility of husband to be gentle with his wife while having intercourse and particularly if the intercourse is painful for the wife.

Abu Dhar reported: 'The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: " in man's sexual Intercourse (with his wife, ) there is a Sadaqa. They (the Companions) said: Messenger of Allah, is there reward for him who satisfies his sexual passion among us? He said: Tell me, if he were to devote it to something forbidden, would it not be a sin on his part? Similarly, if he were to devote it to something lawful, he should have a reward. " Sahih Muslim [ Book 5 : Hadith 2198 ]

And Allah alone knows the best.

I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.

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