I was in a bad habit of doing masturbation… can i ejaculate after a month, to control my sexual desire?
dear brother, I was in a bad habit of doing masturbation and alhumdulila, after going through your posts, it had been above a month, I am not doing masturbation. I am trying hard to prevent myself from it. But some times my sexual desire over powers me which irritates me, still i control my self. with this sitituation can i ejaculate after a month, to control my sexual desire. And after how many days does a man ejaculate naturally?
We begin with Allah’s blessed name, we praise him and we glorify him, seek his forgiveness and ask him to guide us. Whoever Allah guides, None can lead astray and whoever he misguides, None can guide. There is no power and no strength except from Allah, The most high, the Most great, the most powerful. We bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers. We pray for peace and blessings on all the noble messengers and in particular on the last of them all “the blessed prophet Mohammad (pbuh)”
Dear brother your comments were a boost and an encouragement for us to work even harder (to let people know the truth), it doesn’t matter how many are influenced by our humble work, If even a single human being on the face of earth will be benefited from our humble work, then indeed we would consider ourselves fortunate enough to have been given this opportunity by Allah to serve in His Cause.
If anyone derives sexual pleasure through the means other than permitted by Allah, (i.e. rubbing your private organ with hand, pillow etc) then indeed this act is what is called masturbation.
Practicing masturbation is haram because it is seeking pleasure in other than what Allah has permitted. Allah has not permitted the seeking of pleasure and satisfying the sexual desires except with (one's own) wife.
And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, for then, they are free from blame}. Quran [23:5-6]
Who in the world could have given the best remedy of controlling sexual desire other than the blessed prophet Mohammad (pbuh)? If anyone is in a situation whereby one is unable to control ones sexual desire then “if one is able to marry, then one should get married, since that is indeed more protective for the eyes and the private parts; and whoever is unable, then he should fast, for that is indeed better for him”.
Narrated by Abdullah
We were with the Prophet (saws) while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
SAHIH AL-BUKHARI[Volume: 7, Book: 62, hadith: 4]
Dear brother it is not permissible to ejaculate by rubbing your private organ, neither after every month nor after every year or any other time. If one is involved in such an act then one indeed is making ones way to the crushing hellfire. So a Muslim should always abstain from it and should prefer the remedy (given above) given by our beloved prophet(pbuh).
Science has not come clear about how many day a man ejaculates naturally, as it varies from person to person, for some it may be 40days, for other it can be 30, 60, 50, 20,…days.
.And Allah alone knows the best.
I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet
Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.
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