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Is Sucking the lips of wife permissible?

a/a, I am a young guy and I had married recently and my wife is very beautiful and she has beautiful lips and I when ever have desire to have sex, excite her by kissing and sucking her lips, this leads her to full excitement and she also enjoys it, is it permissible ?

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

We begin with Allah’s blessed name, we praise him and we glorify him, seek his forgiveness and ask him to guide us. Whoever Allah guides, None can lead astray and whoever he misguides, None can guide. There is no power and no strength except from Allah, The most high, the Most great, the most powerful. We bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers. We pray for peace and blessings on all the noble messengers and in particular on the last of them all “the blessed prophet Mohammad (pbuh)”

Allah Says in the Quran: Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will. Quran[2:223]

Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: 'The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: "there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your wife."' The companions asked: 'O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said: "Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded." Related by Ahmad and Muslim.

Islam has allowed the husband and the wife every possible liberty to enjoy sexual relations with each other, except three:

1. It is strictly prohibited to have sexual intercourse with one's wife during her period of menstruation.
2. It is strictly prohibited to enter the woman through her anus.
3. Oral sex

Other than the above three restrictions, there is absolutely no harm if one kisses or sucks the lips of wife, because Allah has created them for each other to satisfy each other.

And one of His signs is that He created mates for you, that you may find rest in them, and He envisaged between you love and compassion ... (Quran, 30:21) And Allah alone knows the best.

I ask Allah to make this a sincere effort, seeking his pleasure, and I ask him to grant us refuge in him from the evils within ourselves, and that in our deeds. I ask him to grant us success in achieving whatever pleases him; And May Allah Shower His blessings and mercy upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family and his Companions and on all those who follow him until the final hour.

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